Tuesday, March 31, 2009

things that make me sad...

no matter how strong we might be in life, there are things that make us wonder how, when and where things went wrong between us and the people we love. For me, frnds are an important part of life, and these are some of the  situations that make me feel bad:
  • when a best friend suddenly turns into an acquaintance...
  • when chatters turn into silences...
  • when there used to be a time when you couldnt stop talking to a frnd, and when now you both struggle hard to find some topic to start a conversation...
  • when the same person who always used to wish you first forgets an important occasion...
  • when the very number that used to be in your dialled list every day doesnt even find a place in your phone anymore...
  • when a frnd forgets to give you their new number...
  • when you can no longer call a frnd anytime of the day to just blabber abt life....
  • when a frnd with whom you used to chat everyday appears invisible on yahoo, just so that you wouldnt disturb them...
  • when a whole year passes by, and u wonder how u couldnt meet your frnd even though you both were in the same college....
  • when its been years since you visited your favourite hangout (where you used to be a regular in your college days)...
  • when you need to remind a frnd abt the very joke that binded u both together (just because they dont remember it anymore)...
  • when a frnd doesnt recognise your voice when you call them...
  • when you come across a good frnd, and the only words exchanged are "hey"....and "cu later"...
  • when you can no longer crack the same silly jokes, bcoz you dont know what their reaction would be like....
  • when you call up a frnd to share something with them, and eventually cut the call thinking they might be busy...
  • when misunderstandings between friends increase so much that you cant solve them anymore, no matter how hard you try...
  • when you can only remember the old times, and know for sure that those moments are never going to come back...
people come and go in our lives, and there are those people who dont even realise their importance in your life till they part ways with you.